Who's fighting for Women, If Women aren't fighting for Women.

As I teenage girl myself, I know first hand what feels like the end of the world to girl and I know what things completely slip our mind.

I know that they're are so many things we as females take for granted education, rights to vote, rights to speak, to work, to not be expected to have cooked and cleaned. We can be single mothers, we can be the boss and so much more.

Someone sad the other day that Women are lucky, I don't think we are. How can we be lucky, because we go to school, you don't say boys are lucky. I don't think that were lucky, Women fought to be here, women fought to go to school, to be the boss,

It's time to use what we fought for to give everyone an equal chance it doesn't matter what sex you are.

And years ago Women, are ancestors were fighting for that, they were fighting for our future, to give us these chances and now they're things we take for granted, apart of me is amazed that we can take these things for granted it means a lot because it means they Won a part of battle, they're things we don't bat an eyelid at but the fight isn't over, they're are still girls who don't get an education, who are sold, who are treated diffidently because they're what a girl. 

The sad thing is that not one country can say they have equal rights.

Do you know crazy that sounds! "Your a girl so were gonna sell you" 

Can you imagine someone saying that to you. Someone who is most likely family selling you because you have f*ucking vagina.

Nobody wins a fight alone, we have to band together, we've been doing it for years, we can do it now, Stop being bitches, there are women out there who are being raped and played with like they're a toy because they're a girl. We need to stand together and fight. So they get the same chance, Women thought for us, so we can fight for them, it's not over if they're are still women being treated different for being female.

I know that so many of you will read this and think there is nothing you can do but there is much, someone will always need help, and trying never hurt.

It's Time To Embrace Feminism.

1. Feminism is a collection of movements and ideologies that share a common stated aim: to define, establish, and defend equal political, economic, cultural, and social rights for women. This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment.
2. Take A Listen To 'Girl Up' by Victoria Justice
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4. Victoria Justice made this song back in 2013 to bring awareness to the Girl Up .Org          An organisation dedicated to raising money for girls education, so that girls all around the world get a fair chance in life.
5. Check out the website for ways to get involved. http://www.girlup.org/
6. I could never put it into words better then Emma Watson so here is her amazing speech from the He For She Campaign 2014
7. If you haven't seen it, I urge you to watch it, to listen and join...

If you still feel like you as a girl (or a boy) can't do something your wrong.

For all girls out there who aren't quite sure that they cant help, you have no idea how strong you are, don't let people push you down because your girl.

I'm proud to be a girl.

It's something to be embraced.

This video breaks my heart.

If anything this should show that the battle is not over.

Girls and Boys are being raised to think that Like A Girl is bad thing.

1. This video is so inspiring. You are so much more hen you know.
2. Never let the label of a girl define you.

1. Before you watch this next videos, hear this..people watched this video and a lot of people focused on the language and that those girls had makeup on...Why don't you focus on what they're saying, Why? Because it fucking matters!
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3. You shouldn't say sorry for being a girl.
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If roles were reversed.

The Next Video is kind of man-hating but a lot of what these women are saying is true,

Guys we ain't whores to your household chores.

That's all I hope what I said and shared has made you think, change your view point or made you want to help.

Thank you for reading!

Here is one last song that just cheers me up and inspires me!

Sexy Lady - Jessie J

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The Heart Wants What It Wants - Selena Gomez

Props to Selena Gomez who released a new single this week titled 'The Heart Wants What It Wants'. The emotional song had everyone in tears including Sel G herself. In the video (that was filmed over a year ago) Gomez broke down in tears with other scenes showing a confusing of sorts relationship, Selena admitted the song was about ex Justin Bieber and even had a heart felt monologue at the start saying stuff like 'I know him tho, and i know his heart and I know what he wouldn't do to hurt me' and 'but you make me feel like its my fault....I was in pain'

We've all been there it's hard to walk away from something that used to be so good.

Take a listen

The Heart Wants What It Wants"

You got me sippin' on something

I can't compare to nothing

Ive ever known, I'm hoping

That after this fever I'll survive

I know I'm acting a bit crazy

Strung out, a little bit hazy

Hand over heart, I'm praying

That I'm gonna make it out alive

The bed's getting cold and you're not here

The future that we hold is so unclear

But I'm not alive until you call

And I'll bet the odds against it all

Save your advice 'cause I won't hear

You might be right but I don't care

There's a million reasons why I should give you up

But the heart wants what it wants

You got me scattered in pieces

Shining like stars and screaming

Lightning me up like Venus

But then you disappear and make me wait

And every second's like torture

Hell over trip, no more so

Finding a way to let go

Baby baby no I can't escape

The bed's getting cold and you're not here

The future that we hold is so unclear

But I'm not alive until you call

And I'll bet the odds against it all

Save your advice 'cause I won't hear

You might be right but I don't care

There's a million reasons why I should give you up

But the heart wants what it wants [x4]

This is a modern fairytale

No happy endings

No wind in our sails

But I can't imagine a life without

Breathless moments

Breaking me down down down 

The bed's getting cold and you're not here

The future that we hold is so unclear

But I'm not alive until you call

And I'll bet the odds against it all

Save your advice 'cause I won't hear

You might be right but I don't care

There's a million reasons why I should give you up

But the heart wants what it wants [x4]

The heart wants what it wants baby

All though so many people can relate, it is still such a big thing to share with everyone.

what do you guys think?

Leave a comment below

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I don’t love you like you want me to.

One of my favorites this week is VÉRITÉ’s song Strange Enough.

I'm in love with VÉRITÉ’s music because its so different and fresh compared to a lot of the bubblegum cliche songs blocking the charts at the moment.

                         

The song is about everything changing and yet we all still cling to the love we once had, it's about loving the idea of what the person use to be but understanding you don't the person they are now. This song is so relate able, I have it on repeat.

Lyrics

I wanna fall
But every time you leave me down on the floor
Memories keep rushing round
Cause nothing ever stays the same 

Cause maybe I’m
Just addicted to
The things I lack
And the way you move
In circles run
Round a figure eight
Always running off
Meeting up in the same place 

Slow down
Pick up the pieces I’ve found
We’re living our lives half asleep
Living our lives half asleep 

Cause I wanna go
Where everything’s the same
Memories keep rushing round
And all we do is change
Cause I wanna fall
But every time you leave me down on the floor
Picturing the ways we move
Cause nothing ever stays the same 

Separate a fragile spine
A hollow hope
Just to make things right
I’ve been picking up pieces slowly
And wondering why you hold me
Take me back to the way it was before 

Cause I wanna go
Where everything’s the same
Memories keep rushing round
And all we do is change
Cause I wanna fall
But every time you leave me down on the floor
Picturing the ways we move
Cause nothing ever stays the same 

Strange enough, I don’t love you like you want me to.
Strange enough, I don’t love you like you want me to. 

Cause I wanna go
Where everything’s the same
Memories keep rushing round
And all we do is change
Cause I wanna fall
But every time you leave me down on the floor
Picturing the ways we move
cause nothing ever stays the same 

Strange enough, I don’t love you like you want me to.
Strange enough, I don’t love you like you want me to.
Strange enough, I don’t love you like you want me to.
Strange enough, I don’t love you like you want me to.
Strange enough, I don’t love you like you want me to.
Strange enough, I don’t love you like you want

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The Reason For The Heartbreak

I really enjoyed my last blog about my favorite song, so I decided to do that again.

This weeks song is Heartbreak by the Nashville rock band Dinner and a Suit. I first heard this song in an trailer for Chicago P.D and used Shazam to find it. I personally love the acoustic version of the song however the original has an amazing vibe to it as well.

Lyrics 

I feel the Earth shake beneath my feet

Blood red, light shines on the city street

I shake my head to keep from sleep

Cause it's hard to tell what the truth is from the dream

I can't be too sure

Don't even know what we're fight 'bout anymore

I can't be too sure

Don't let me go

Don't wanna be out here on my own

Don't let me go

I gave my all but is never enough

Too far gone to ever get back home

Don't let me go

It's hard to breath but not for lack of breath

Why can't I keep my mouth shut and save myself?

This is new for me

So why can't I speak?

Every step, I take a second guessed by someone else

I can't be too sure

Don't even know what I'm doing here anymore

I can't be too sure

Don't let me go

Don't wanna be out here on my own

Don't let me go

I gave my all but it's never enough

Too far gone to ever get back home

Don't let me go

Cause when I look into those green eyes

I feel my body come back to life

Because the reason for a heartbreak

It's how we got here in the first place

How we got here in the first place

Don't let me go

Don't wanna be out here on my own

Don't let me go

(Cause the reason for a heartbreak)

I gave my all but is never enough

Too far gone to ever get back home

Don't let me go

The reason for a heartbreak

Here is the original version.

But I personally prefer the acoustic 

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Steal Her Style - Sophia Bush

Quick post on how you can re-create this casual but totally stylish look worn by Chicago P.D actress Sophia Bush.

Coffee Date

Get The Jumper Here

Get The Bag Here

Get The Boots Here

Get The Necklace Here

Get The Jeans Here

Leave a comment below if there is someone you want to see on steal her style next time.

Have You Ever Had That Relationship? Change

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My favorite song this week Change by Banks (every time I type it Google asks me if I wanna change my banks). I first heard this song when one of my favorite actresses shared it. I immediately loved the song, It sounds quite different to my usual music and when I played it to my friend she said she thought it was just noise but the messages in the lyrics are really meaningful.

The song is about a girl who is and relationship with a guy  who doesn't really love her, but she really loves him. Whenever she gains the ability to leave, he begs her to stay, promising that he’ll change. He gives her several reasons throughout the song why he’s acting this way so that she she can’t blame it on him. 

Banks

 Change By Banks

Always cold

While you'd self-incriminate

By avoiding all my questions

And calling me an instigator

Cut me down

Always calling me unstable

You so easily can make me cry

Just cause you are in a mood

And you'd say

Chorus

Baby don't go

I didn't know

I'll change I swear

I'll change I swear

Baby don't go

I'll make you wait

I promise I'll be better

All of these things they will change

Baby don't go

I didn't know

I'll change I swear

I'll change I swear

Baby don't go

I'll make you wait

I promise I'll be better

All of these things they will change

Call me out

You would say I need attention

Just because I put on makeup

To ironically look good for you

Cut me to pieces

While you watched me disintegrate

Because you like to tell me how you hate

All the ways I'm not enough for you

Then you'd say

Chorus

Baby don't go

I didn't know

I'll change I swear

I'll change I swear

Baby don't go

I'll make you wait

I promise I'll be better

All of these things they will change

Baby don't go

I didn't know

I'll change I swear

I'll change I swear

Baby don't go

I'll make you wait

I promise I'll be better

All of these things they will change

Never guilty

Say it ain't your fault

Because you had an emotionally abusive daddy

And cause of this you don't know how to act

Chorus

Baby don't go

I didn't know

I'll change I swear

I'll change I swear

Baby don't go

I'll make you wait

I promise I'll be better

All of these things they will change

Baby don't go

I didn't know

I'll change I swear

I'll change I swear

Baby don't go

I'll make you wait

I promise I'll be better

All of these things they will change

Poor poor baby

Say you can't help the fact that you're so crazy

And you're so good at making me feel guilty

For trying to walk away

Because I'm tired of being mad

Then you'd say

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Halloween Bucket List

Mwahahhahaha (failed attempt at a scary laugh)

Yes it's official we are 2 days into October or what I like to call the Halloween season.

October is all about the rules being broken, you can dress up and not be judged or as one of my friends put it girls can dress up as sluts and not be judged. Another thing is the strangers can give you candy without causing mayhem.

Everything about Halloween is so exciting to me I could literally spend hours in the ASDA Halloween isle.

Here is a my bucket list for Halloween:

1. Spend a day Halloween shopping for stuff I don't need.

2. Buy a pumpkin.

3. Watch Hocus Pocus.

4. Play a scary prank on my friends.

5. Read some horror stories.

6. Go to Broadditch Farm (A Halloween farm full of scary things)

7. Have a scary movie sleepover.

8. Handout sweets to children.

9. Have fun buying a costume.

10. Carve the Pumpkin.

11. Listen to Halloween music like Time-warp and Thriller.

12. Watch all the Scream Movies in one night.

13. Dress Up.

14. Go trick or treating - Might be a bit old though.

15. Buy sweets to give out.

16. Go to a Halloween party.

17. Watch your favorite shows Halloween special.

18. Eat some weird Halloween treats, that probably cherry aid called blood. 

19. Go to London dungeons and if you don't have a scary attraction near you go to a graveyard (weirdo)

Only Joking

20. Collect money for UNICEF.

21. Buy thousands of pumpkin lattes.

22. Make loads of memories.

Well that is the things I will be doing, I would love to hear what you guys are doing, so leave a comment below.

Here are some things that didn't make the list that I saw other people say and were to funny not to share...

1.Open the door dressed as a giant fish. Immediately collapse, and don't move or say anything until the trick-or-treaters go away. 

2. When you answer the door, hold up one candybar, throw it out into the street, and yell, "Crawl for it!" 

3. Answer the door with a mouthful of M & M's and several half-eaten candy bars in your hands. Act surprised, and close the door. Open it again in a few seconds, and insist that you don't have any candy.